Be Better Than Best Practices

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This is an excerpt from the weekly Unthinkable newsletter. Every Monday, I share ONE idea or story about trusting your intuition to break from conventional thinking and do better work. Subscribe here.

Last week, we explored a question: How do we find clarity faster? When faced with Advice Overload, it can be difficult to know which strategy, tactic, tool, or idea we should apply to our work. But occasionally, our intuition delivers a lightning-strike moment of clarity. What if we could generate those proactively? Could we actually control our ability to find clarity on-demand, and do so quicker and quicker over time? That’s what we explored last week. 

If you missed it, make sure you go back and read it here. Today we’re going one step further.

Remember the graphic depicting what intuition might look like? We imagined it as a funnel. By pouring information into the top, the funnel puts some pressure on whatever goes inside — like best practices — and creates a more condensed stream at the bottom. This helps us get more proactive about alllllll that information out there and find clarity, faster.

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So, what does the condensing? What puts pressure on all that information? Our context.  

Best practices can’t account for the variables of our own unique situations, and so at best, they provide approximations or estimates. They create AVERAGE work and results. And while the expert can’t possibly know the details of our situation, we certainly can. If we understood our context, we could use those details to make the best possible decisions for us, in our specific situation. And we could get increasingly skilled at doing this, until our decision-making seems almost instant -- that's the power of intuition.

The people we admire as "geniuses" seem to have that instant clarity generator in their back pocket. That's because they've honed their intuition for awhile, so what they do feels magical. But it’s not. They just understand their own context better than we do.

But now I’m wondering: What IS our context?

If we’re going to press all kinds of best practices and ideas through that funnel, then, uh … what IS the funnel? Obviously, we aren’t walking around our offices carrying a giant funnel ... into which we pour information ... by cramming our notebooks into the company blender ... with a little bit of milk ... but two percent only because I'm watching my figure...

No! (Right? If you're actually doing that, please take a selfie.) The funnel is just a hashtag metaphor. So back in the real world, what's it made of? What IS our context?
I think our context is made up of three parts: YOU, YOUR CUSTOMER, and YOURRESOURCES.

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Think about it: In anything you do in your career, those three things are the fundamental pieces involved. There’s always a person or a group doing the work (you), a person or a group receiving the work (customers, or perhaps gatekeepers like bosses that we’re convincing), and then there's the means for making the work happen (resources).

And no two collections of those three things are exactly the same, most especially because YOU don't exist in other situations.

Of course, we all realize this in theory. But we rarely apply it.

So, perhaps visualizing the concept of "context" will help us all view intuition as a practical thing, rather than an ephemeral moment. Right now, best practices have the edge because best practices can be documented. They can be taught. They can (and are) listified by every expert -- the good, the bad, and the "I'm pretty sure you bought your followers and I'm shocked people actually pay you" (i.e., the ugly).

The way we can put original thinking on equal footing with conventional thinking is to visualize it, then go apply it. In other words, we need to investigate the three parts of our context to find our answers, rather than search for someone else's. After all, if we do what's best in our situation, then that IS the best practice. It's just not the AVERAGE practice being shared around our industry. But who cares? We've found the best approach for our own situation.

Look, I know you want to do better work. We all want faster, bigger, and better results, however we define that word. To do that, we don't need the very best best practice. We need something BETTER. Because we aspire to DO better. 

It's time we stopped obsessing over everyone else's answers for us, and instead, asked ourselves the right questions. THAT is how you investigate your context. THAT is how you trust your intuition.

Posted on October 20, 2017 and filed under IDEAS.

UNTHINKABLE: The Incredible Insight That Turned Death Wish Coffee Into a Monster Success

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If you want to break from convention and follow your intuition, where does that leave all those best practices out there? It's so easy to follow a list or do what someone else says works. But what if best practices aren't even the best?

Go outside the echo chamber with the story of a football coach bucking the trend and finding success -- and hear why his peers STILL think he's crazy, despite mountains of data from Harvard PhDs saying otherwise.

Then, hear the story of Mike Brown and Death Wish Coffee -- and hear about the cardinal sin he committed early on that actually wound up HELPING his brand grow.


Mike Brown on Twitter

Death Wish Coffee website

Posted on October 20, 2017 and filed under EPISODES.

What Does Intuition LOOK Like? A Framework for Finding Clarity Faster


This is an excerpt from my weekly Unthinkable newsletter, which explores intuition at work. Sick of average results and commodity content? Get weekly ideas and stories about conventional thinking and the people who dare to question it. Subscribe here.

How great are those moments where, suddenly, you just know?

The idea strikes. The answer arrives. The path forward is suddenly illuminated with floodlights and neon signs and three friends jumping up and down screaming, "THIS WAY!" ... plus that one friend who still won't stop staring at his phone. (I see you, LARRY! DON'T EXPECT AN INVITE TO BE PART OF MY NEWSLETTER STORIES NEXT TIME!)

Freaking Larry.

My point is, few things feel better than those moments where confusion suddenly gives way to clarity.

That's the power of your intuition.

Intuition is like an instant clarity generator.

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But unfortunately, it doesn't always generate that clarity when we need it most. Those moments where we suddenly know aren't consistent. More often than not, the idea DOESN'T strike, and we don't know how to make sure it does. The answer DOESN'T arrive, and we don't know how to hasten it. The floodlights are off, the neon signs are broken, and every single one of your friends is sitting next to Larry, staring at their phones. 

Freaking. Larry.

So here's my question this week: 

How do we find clarity faster?

How do we get proactive and ensure that we're in control of our intuition? Because while the world paints it as some kind of mystical muse, we've uncovered something else over the past year of the podcast: Intuition is the ability to think for yourself. It's from the Latin intuir, after all, which means "knowledge from within." 

So how do we kickstart that process of thinking for yourself? How do we turn intuition into a practical tool that we can grasp hold of and wield?

I think we visualize what it actually LOOKS like. If we did so, we could avoid the situations where we're overwhelmed or confused or at a loss for ideas and answers. We'd be able to turn to it like we too often turn to that list of 17 Tips and Tricks.

So what does intuition look like? I think it looks like a funnel:

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In the top, you can pour all kinds of information: best practices, your ideas, others' ideas, inspiration, past precedents, and more.

And then, once you do that, this funnel called intuition does what all funnels do: It turns an overwhelming dump of stuff into a controlled stream of it.

Also, THIS feels like a good time for a new, periodic feature of this newsletter:




According to marketers, funnels work like this:

  • Lots of stuff goes into the top (e.g., Lots of website traffic)
  • Some stuff leaks out in the middle (e.g., Some of that traffic turns into subscribers, some does not)
  • A little stuff comes out the bottom (e.g., A few subscribers turn into customers)

That's how funnels work in the world of marketers.

But I ventured deep inside the world of actual humans -- you know, for science -- and I uncovered something shocking: Funnels don't actually work like that.

Think: How many funnels leak water from the sides while a little bit arrives at the bottom? How many funnels ooze olive oil onto your hand as you pour more into the top?

Answer: None. None funnels.

It turns out, when actual humans use a funnel, THIS happens:

  • Lots of stuff goes into the top
  • The same amount of stuff comes out the bottom, but it's now in a slower, thinner stream

Funnels don't leak stuff out the sides. Funnels turn an overwhelming dump of stuff into a controlled stream of it.

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So if intuition is a funnel, then it does what funnels ACTUALLY do: 

Intuition turns a massive dump of information into a controlled stream of it.

And it's from that slower, thinner drip of information that we can find clarity faster. 

Intuition doesn't magically find clarity for you. Instead, it orders things in such a way that lets YOU find that clarity. And while we can't make sense of all the information of the Information Age all at once, we could understand it better if we put some pressure around the sides of it, like a funnel does to liquid. In other words, if we press best practices and ideas through the constraints of our own context, we might find clarity faster. And it turns out that CONTEXT is crucial to all of this for one big reason:

Your context is always missing from the expert's best practices. 

Our context is unique. THIS moment in time and THIS collection of stuff creates a singular scenario. Our context presents several variables to the equation, not least of which is our very presence in the work. 

Unfortunately, best practices don't account for those variables. So the best result we can hope for when running such a faulty equation is an approximation of the best answer, not the actual best answer.

Best practices don't actually yield the "best" result ... UNLESS we consider the variables of our context.

Next week, we'll explore how we might do exactly that.

But for this week, try something: Try taking every best practice you uncover -- your own approaches from the past, your new favorite idea from an expert, everything -- and attempt to compare/contrast the things that might be different in YOUR context compared to THEIRS. You don't need to come up with the actual right answer or best path forward, but try to understand what fundamental pieces create your context (like the one I gave you above: YOU) and how those pieces might differ or change what's been dubbed the "best practice" for a given project. 

In the end, maybe you'll find clarity faster. Let me know how that goes!

Trust your intuition. - Jay

Posted on October 18, 2017 and filed under IDEAS.

Stop Obsessing Over Best Practices

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This is an excerpt from my weekly Unthinkable newsletter, which explores intuition at work. Sick of average results and commodity content? Get weekly ideas and stories about conventional thinking and the people who dare to question it. Subscribe here.

“Yeah but how do we KNOW?”

That was a question I asked my boss a couple years ago — or, actually, one of my three bosses. This particular boss was Rob Go, one of the three co-founding partners of NextView Ventures, the seed-stage VC firm where I worked for three years as VP of Platform (content + community + marketing).

Over lunch, Rob and I were talking about the most confounding problem in the early-stage startup world: How do you know when a company is close to seeing great results?

“I’m writing a blog post about this actually,” said Rob. I glanced up from my wrap of chipotle-grilled-doesn’t-matter-because-I’ll-have-that.

“The problem,” Rob said, “is that people squint really hard to see something is sort-of working. And so they tell themselves that with a few more attempts or a bit more time, the curve will shoot up-and-to-the-right.”

“But that’s almost never the case,” I said.

“But that’s almost never the case,” he said.

I crammed the final bite of wrap into my mouth, that glorious, tightly folded flavor bomb that rockets you to the top of Sauce Mountain.

“Welp,” I said. “Now we just need to convince everyone else they’re delusional.”

The article Rob eventually wrote was titled “The Shape of Traction.” It is, to this day, the piece I share with others the most. I’ve sent this to startup founders, CMOs, content marketing managers, podcasters, agency executives, even a few friends just thinking of launching their latest video blog idea. You can find it here, and I can’t suggest it enough. (Whether you’re in the startup world or not, building a business or creating content, we can all learn a thing or three from this way of thinking.)

Now here’s the problem, and why it affects all of us, regardless of our industry or the size of our companies…

We assume we’re THISCLOSE to bigger results by doing things the way we’re doing them now.


Buuuuuut we’re really not:


But because we convince ourselves that the path we’re on is THISCLOSE to better things, we behave in a number of dangerous ways:

  • We keep seeing average results for longer than we should tolerate.
  • When we finally get frustrated, we look for the shortcut, hack, or tactic to copy. This leads to even more commodity work, whether by glomming onto the latest trend or following what worked for us in the past.
  • We fall victim to the HYPE CYCLE. We view buzzy approaches or technologies as our savior. We view them with outlandish expectations … adopt them for too long … get frustrated when it doesn’t work … and either resign ourselves that we can only get so-so results or assume the salesman was sleazy and their oils were snake-y.

This. Has. To. Stop.

We have to stop obsessing over best practices like they’re going to save us. We keep following these things and keep convincing ourselves that we’re THISCLOSE to getting great results.

The problem is that, while a best practice might have worked for others, they’re not working for US. And so rather than find someone else’s best practice, what if we crafted our own?

What if the goal wasn’t to continue down one path, getting fine results until somehow (magically?) it shot upward? What if the goal wasn’t to SUCCEED quickly, but to LEARN quickly? Because, let’s face it, the things we’re using to SUCCEED quickly aren’t delivering on those promises.

According to Rob, the startups that gain traction the quickest and go on to build exceptional businesses operate like this:


They launch radically different experiments in the name of moving QUICKER and seeing BIGGER results. Instead of enduring average results for too long, they drop what’s going okay in favor of finding what could be great NOW, not someday.

Too often, our strategy seems to be to squint really hard at what we’re already doing and convince ourselves we’re doing the right thing. After all, they said this path was, indeed, right. In fact, they said it was best.

We tell ourselves we’re THISCLOSE. But if you realize you’re not, then the choice becomes clearer…

If you want to be good, follow the best practice.

If you want to be great, craft your own.

Posted on October 18, 2017 and filed under IDEAS.

The Great Lie We’re Told About Doing Exceptional Work

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This is an excerpt from my weekly Unthinkable newsletter, which shares one idea or story each Monday about trusting intuition to do better work. Put a charge into your week and subscribe here.

So you want to do exceptional work. Great! But now the question becomes: How?

Well, here’s what we’ve been conditioned to believe it takes…

First, you need EXPERTISE.

This is the foundational layer. The most critical and fundamental part of building great companies and careers is knowing how to do the work.


Next, you need RESOURCES.

In order to do the work you know how to do, you need the means to do it. This means money or the various things money can buy, like tools, teammates, training, visibility, and more.


Next, you need an AUDIENCE.

Once you know how to do the work and have the means to do it, you need other people to receive your work. Whether you have readers or customers, fans or clients, the exchange that occurs between you and them is commerce, distilled. Who is your work FOR?


Lastly, there’s YOU, the person or the team.

You provide the final layer of improvement to your work. It’s that last mile push towards greatness. You know how to do things and have the means to do them, and you have an audience of people who wants what you can do. As a person or a group, you can now leave your unique mark on the world. Eventually, who you are makes a difference.


This is what we’ve been told to believe about doing great work.

But this … is wrong.

In fact, it’s entirely backwards. We have to flip this on its head.

So let’s start over…

So you want to do exceptional work. Great! But now the question becomes: How?

Well, the least foundational thing is EXPERTISE.


As knowledge workers, knowing THE answer has become the most commodified thing in our world today. We need it, but we can Google it. We can watch a video on YouTube for it. We can ask someone on social or consult any of the millions of blog posts, books, podcasts, Ultimate Guides, blueprints, cheat-sheets, templates, online trainings, and offline events.

We can launch side projects, and we can access experts. We can even outsource and automate.

In reality, it’s simply not sufficient to know how to do the work. In some cases, it’s barely necessary.

Access to RESOURCES has also become democratized in knowledge-based jobs.


The internet has leveled the playing field and removed the gatekeepers. We have more free tools and cheaper technologies. We can watch or hear the world’s best thinkers for free and try entire curriculums from our couches. We can earn a living through traditional jobs, yes, but also through freelance, remote, or gig economy-based work. We can fund our company through traditional capital or by turning a profit, sure, but also through crowdfunding, angel investors, and micro-VCs.

And most powerfully of all, in a world without gatekeepers…

We can access our AUDIENCE directly and for free.


We can reach people ourselves, without permission. We can learn about them more intimately and identify key insights to create better work. The more we know the customer, the easier the other stuff becomes. In a world where knowledge is a commodity and resources are increasingly democratized, if we know our audience better than the other guy, WE. WIN.

But in all of this, the most foundational thing and the key to doing exceptional work is something long considered to be the commodity:



What we’ve long considered to be incremental is actually fundamental. It’s where we should start. All our lives, we’ve been told that that exceptional work is built on expertise.

It’s not.

Exceptional work is built on self-awareness.

The gurus and the experts are over-valued. The what and the how-to, too. But the most critical thing we can understand to do great things is our own context, and nothing makes your context more unique than your very presence.

YOU are the variable. YOU are the great unknown. YOU are the unfair advantage.

How do you understand your context? How do you understand yourself? You stop obsessing over the expert’s right answers and instead ask yourself the right questions. It is so much more powerful that we know how to find answers than knowing THE answer, because THE answer will change. But if we can throw ourselves into any scenario in this fast-changing world of ours and know how to figure it out? We’re unstoppable.

That’s what this whole Unthinkable thing is about: From the outside looking in, someone might deem our work crazy, or creative, or innovative, or impossible. But it’s all because we know something the expert never could about our context. We operate in our specific situation, and so we act more like investigators than experts.

To be exceptional, you have to be an exception. And the good news is, every individual, every team, and every situation IS an exception. But you have to make that the foundation of your work. You have to trust that reality. You have to USE THAT in your work. Everything else, even the expertise we choose to acquire, flows from that self-awareness.

If you can just flip your understanding of what it takes to do great work, you’ll realize you have what it takes already. You can lay the foundation without needing to know THE answer from any expert. You see, YOU are the answer.


So you want to do exceptional work. Great! But now the question becomes: What are you waiting for?

Be the exception. ~ Jay

Posted on October 18, 2017 and filed under IDEAS.

The Green Smoothie Problem: Why Others Don’t Buy Your Ideas

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Ever excitedly share an idea with a teammate, boss, or client that’s met with such horror that you wonder if you’d accidentally suggested clubbing baby seals?

Oh! Uhhh, yeah me neither. But, like, you HAVE received some confusing or hesitant looks, right? Right. Okay. Same page.

Because it’s just so easy for us to share our ideas, only for others to question them or shoot them down without another thought.

Why? The Green Smoothie Problem.

Imagine I just handed you a smoothie in a glass. “It’s a green smoothie. Wanna drink it?” 

If you’ve never seen or heard of a smoothie like that, you’d react in one of two ways:

  1. You’d anchor to things you already understand to be similar. “Oh, I saw this at the gym once. It’s like, grass or something. Gross!” Or maybe, “This looks like a children’s drink. It’s gonna be too sugary for me. No thanks.”
  2. You’d look for social proof that says it’s a good drink. “Do people really drink this? Do the studies show it’s good to drink? Are celebrities endorsing this? Is there a green smoothie case study I can see?”

Simply by handing you the smoothie, I’ve immediately put you at an information disadvantage. As a result, you anchor to a past precedent or try to draw confidence from others in order to fill in the gaps in your knowledge as quickly as possible. If my goal is to get you to drink the smoothie, I’ve done a rather poor job. I’ve merely handed you the drink and left you to do all the reasoning to influence your decision.

But if I really wanted to influence your decision, what if I shared the reasoning too?

What if, rather than simply hand you the smoothie, I laid out the details of how I came up with it?

If I said to you, “Remember last week, when you told me you wanted to be healthy? And then you joked about all those foul-tasting health drinks? Well, I took some mango, some apple, some kiwi, a banana, a handful of kale, and some protein powder, and I blended that together. Also, I went on this island vacation last year and saw them use coconut oil in their drinks. It was delicious, so I added some of that. And I used the blender we already have in the company kitchen, so it was done in almost no time. So, if you want to get healthy but still drink something delicious, here’s what I’m thinking. (Places glass on table.) It’s a green smoothie. Will you drink it?”

If you’ve never seen or heard of a smoothie like that, you’d react in one of two ways:

  1. You’d happily drink it. “I love those ingredients! That sounds both healthy and delicious! Yes, please!”
  2. Or, if not, you and I could discuss the ingredients and the process in concrete details. Rather than a wholesale “nope,” we can have a more objective discussion for ways to actually improve the thinking and therefore the idea. “Could we take out the kale? I hate how bitter it tastes.” Sure! No problem! How about some spinach? “You know, the kitchen blender kinda sucks. I think I burnt it out making all those protein shakes. Let’s get a new one.” Yes! Definitely! And by the way, boss, you’re looking swoll!

By sharing my THINKING, not just the IDEA, you’re no longer at an information disadvantage, so you can either proceed with confidence and clarity or, at very least, we can have a more objective conversation about the ingredients and process that go into making the smoothie (as well as your proper form for better bicep curls).

As creators, the point is not to sell our ideas. The point is to sell why our ideas should exist.

By laying out our thinking, it’s no longer combative. It’s no longer you (the proxy for your idea) versus them (those who would pass judgment on the idea). Instead, everyone is now involved in the thinking process. In other words, we have to make others feel like cofounders of our ideas. That way, we can put our thinking on the board and, together, discuss or improve it.

Too often, when we use our intuition to come up with ideas, we arrive at something faster than traditional reasoning can explain. Our minds have produced an exponential curve, while others around us try their linear logic. Worse, we then share those ideas in their final state with great excitement. This only isolates others further. They have NO idea how we arrived there, and we’re effectively dancing on top of that harsh reality.

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When we act this way, we’re relying too heavily on the other person to fill in the gaps in thinking, and that’s where they anchor to preconceived notions or require case studies and social proof — both poor ways to arrive at exciting new ideas. It all stems from their lack of information. We’ve given them the destination, but they have no idea how to get there. So it’s our job to help them do so.

How? Some suggestions…

1) Start with what they want. 

“Last week, you told me you wanted to be healthy.” That’s exactly the result my forthcoming idea will deliver. We’re on the same page, and we both want the same outcome.

2) Include any biases or beliefs they might have. 

“You also said the usual healthy drinks are foul.” My forthcoming idea takes into account what you believe. You’ve been heard. Your opinions matter, and you’re influencing our direction. (Note: Make sure their beliefs were overtly stated. Nothing will kill your idea quite like saying, “And I know how much you hate fun, boss!” But enough about the time Bob got fired…)

3) Pull from personal experiences or sources outside your niche, but explain them as such. 

“I went on this island vacation and saw them using coconut oil.” I’m letting you know that, yes, this is atypical, but it added a welcome new element that helps this improve or differentiate. I’m not leaving you to guess as to why a slightly odd ingredient in my thinking snuck in there. I’m telling you: I was inspired by the world we live in.

4) Share your best guess as the cost (in time or money). 

“I used the blender we already have in the company kitchen so it was done in almost no time.”

5) Reiterate the potential outcome and core beliefs. 

“So, if you want to get healthy but still drink something delicious…”

6) Finally, reveal the actual idea. 

“It’s a green smoothie. Will you drink it?”

Look, I get it: This feels like more work. And maybe at first, that’s true. At first, you may find yourself carefully thinking through your talking points or reflecting on what inspirational sources actually triggered that idea. But like the very intuition you possess that led you to that idea so instantly, the more you use the approach, the less effort it will require.

Albert Einstein (allegedly) called intuition “our most sacred gift.” In no way should we bury that gift or slow its ability to generate answers in an instant. But if we want others to eagerly drink up our ideas, we can’t just share the smoothie. We have to explain the ingredients and the recipe. Maybe then we’ll get the reaction we REALLY want in our quest to have meaningful creative careers:

“That was great! Can I have some more?”

Posted on October 17, 2017 and filed under IDEAS.

Dear Business Internet: Enough of the Hacks, Cheats, and Gurus

The following is an excerpt from my weekly newsletter about questioning conventional thinking at work. To receive Monday’s email, subscribe here.

Last week, I saw a headline on Medium that stopped me dead in my tracks:

Why Being an A-Type Person Is the Quickest Way to Lose in Life

Naturally, I started cramming Post-It Notes into my mouth to avoid punching my screen. Then I wondered: Is this the kind of content we’re okay creating?

(I also wondered if Post-Its would taste better with Sriracha, but I mean, of course they would. Everything tastes better with Sriracha.)

I stared at that headline again: “Why Being an A-Type Person Is the Quickest Way to Lose in Life.”

Seriously? Seriously.

I mean … SERIOUSLY?!?!


Maybe it was the headline, or maybe it was the surprisingly smooth finish of paper and glue, but I realized something in that moment: When all we care to know is “what works,” we so often create hollow or even tone deaf things.

Want a widely-read, widely-shared blog post on Medium? Make a broad, sweeping statement. Take a side, regardless of the nuanced truth. Make others curious enough to click — or perhaps scared or mad enough. And of course, imply that you know something that they don’t.

Why Being an A-Type Person Is the Quickest Way to Lose in Life

It’s a clinic in doing “what works” on Medium, and it’s easy to conclude that it worked. Because there it was, sitting atop the Medium home page, driving its numbers ever higher. You can almost anticipate the author’s next article: How I Reached the Medium Home Page with My First Post: 7 Secrets to Success. And that’ll probably get lots of views too. As for serving your audience with integrity? Eh, whatever.

Is this it? Really? Is this what Business Internet just IS now?


I know it. You know it. But we’re up against the dark side of the Information Age: Advice Overload.
It’s become so easy to justify work that feels … icky.

The tips and tricks, the cheats and hacks, the get-rich-quick schemes. Is that really what we want to create and consume? Really?

I mean, is this IT?


I know you aspire for something more. But I also know that it’s easy to give in. I hear it all the time after my speeches and after Unthinkable episodes:

“HELL YES, JAY! But, um … my boss.”

“PREACH ON, PREACHER-MAN! But, oh right … my budget.”

“I’M READY, SPEAKER-DUDE! But, here’s the thing … my industry.”

“ROCK ON! TO THE BREAK OF DAWN! But, uhh … my numbers.”

Look, do you want to thrive or just survive?

If you want to merely survive, I have amazing news: You can Google it. You can put in on repeat. You can “But my boss”-yourself straight to average work in no time flat.

But if you want to thrive, well, you have to do the hard thing. You have to think for yourself.

You have to clear away all kinds of clutter and distill the work down to the simple things. And it’s the simple things that are so often the hardest things to make others see.

After all, we believe: Make stuff we’re proud of and that our audience loves too and the rest gets easier. But “the rest” is what others tend to see.

They obsess over gaming systems.

They agonize over eking out a few more results from annoyed audiences.

They want to know the exact words to use in our headlines, instead of WHY we publish at all.

They want to know how to “generate” subscribers, instead of creating things worth subscribing to.

They want the perfect answer, the one simple secret — and, fine, I’m a guy who shares thoughts about work for a living, so here’s my secret:

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And here’s the deal: I know you have the right intent.

But now … you have PROVE IT.

I’m asking you to show, not tell. I’m asking you to test instead of talk, to execute instead of hope.

I’m asking you to ask yourself the right questions, instead of obsessing over everyone else’s answers.

It’s not easy. But you’re also not alone.

I promise. Do you?

I promise to question conventional thinking using what I know about my own context. Do you?

If you do, maybe you’d make better decisions, faster.

I promise to pay more attention to my audience than my industry. Do you?

If you do, maybe your audience would pay more attention to you.

I promise to make the process the point, not the end results. Do you?

If you do, maybe you’d get better end results. Maybe it’s more powerful that you know how to find answers than know THE answer. After all, THE answer will change. But if you and I can approach any situation in our ever-changing world and know how to figure it out … we’d be unstoppable.

Regardless of what that Medium headline said, the quickest way to lose isn’t being an A-Type Person — it’s being the kind of person that would write such a thing simply because others said it “works.”

When what THEY say becomes what WE do, we do average work.

My friend, it has never been easier to be average. So let’s promise to be something else…

The exception.

Posted on October 17, 2017 and filed under IDEAS.

URR: A Metric to Save Content Marketing from Making More Crap


Here’s an actual moment in my career that made me want to start flipping tables. It’s an exchange between me and a colleague from several years ago:

Me: Let’s update that truly terrible project sitting behind that lead-gen form. The design sucks. The copy is awful. We’re probably pissing off a ton of people who expect something great when they fill out that big form gating it.

Colleague: Why? The landing page is getting a ton of traffic and it’s generating a ton of form-fills for us.

Me: (wraps fingers slowly around table leg)

Being a content marketer is tough business. Being a content marketer who cares about the content part is even harder.

When defending an idea or desire to do better work, create-first content marketers so often hear the same comeback: “But how do you know? Can you prove that?”

Nope. I just know. I can feel it. I have good taste.

The metrics we use to “know things” in content marketing are often misused to justify bad behavior — just like my old colleague. And the obsession with cold, hard, often non-existent absolutes, instead of embracing the messiness that is making stuff, leads to some pretty disgusting decisions and grotesque content. I mean, there’s just no way any human being wants to keep hearing from your company when you promised them goodness but served them a loaf of crap, roasted for hours in the dumpster behind your office. With a sprinkle of parsley. For character.


Introducing URR: Unsolicited Response Rate

I was recently interviewed in Boston at Daniel Glickman’s event, CMO Confessions. He asked how I measured the growth of my show. I knew the standard response here was some kind of strategic-sounding list of metrics and maybe a funnel graphic sketched excitedly onto a whiteboard. But, being a card-carrying member of Emotional Makers United (or “EMU”), I went right for the kill with a swift kick of the claw:

“Unsolicited responses to my work.”

If people are going out of their way to write me an email or leave a thoughtful comment or share the thing but with their own emotional response added? Clearly, the thing I made is good. And I can do some serious damage by marketing a thing that is good.

And thus “URR” was born.

I may never fully understand the content marketing industry’s need to explain in a dashboard what most humans intuitively know, but hey, us EMUs tend to fly — err, walk — in a different direction than most.

We look for resonance, not reach. We crave the creation part. We want to make stuff that matters — to us, to others. And guess what? That makes us huge weapons for any business. For an EMU, the feathers in your cap (or, you know, covering your body) come from making a thing that others really friggin’ enjoy. That’s the harder part today — making a thing people love, not putting a thing in front of people.

Once you do the hard part, lean in harder.

So, how do we measure what we make? People seemed to like it. A small number of people reacted in a big way. The rest of the stuff just tends to follow.

Now if you’ll excuse me, I have some tables to pick up.

Posted on October 17, 2017 and filed under IDEAS.

UNTHINKABLE: Shipping a Drawing a Day, Every Day

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We hear the all the time: JUST SHIP IT! 

Just ship your work already. But should you? COULD you? Is this idea friend … or foe?

Today we go exploring the topic of shippin’ it, and shippin’ it good.

Stories about Chris Piascik, an illustrator who has published a new drawing every single weekday since 2007, and Andrea Fryrear, a newly-minted author who wrote her book in 6 months and got her start writing 5 articles every week for work.

We care about craft. And results. We want to make it GREAT. But also done. Let’s make sense of this hairy idea today.

It’s Unthinkable.


Chris’s portfolio

Chris on Twitter

Andrea’s site

Andrea on Twitter

Andrea’s new book!

Posted on October 17, 2017 and filed under EPISODES.

UNTHINKABLE: Behind-the-Scenes Making the Show

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Podcasting is weird.

If you listen to just one of my episodes, suddenly, you feel like you know me. But it’s all somewhat of a sham, when you think about it — the editing, the performing, the engineering of your experience. Am I doing it to improve what you hear? Yes. Of course. Is it still 100% me? That’s debatable.

So, here’s something that IS 100% me — a behind-the-scenes, sneaky listen into my weekly call with Unthinkable executive producer Andrew Davis. In the call, we discuss what we’re thinking for the evolution and growth of the show, along with why I want to do something that sounds pretty crazy to you but logical and attainable to me: Becoming the Anthony Bourdain of business.

Without further ado, here’s your completely transparent look at what really makes this show happen:

Posted on October 17, 2017 and filed under EPISODES.